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Hello Again. I'm very pleased to write again. Today I want to write about my first freediving lesson experience at Tunda Island. One word: AMAZING. I've been swimming since I was 3, and I did some competition when I was in elementary school. Until now, swimming is my favorite sport all the time. I feel calm in the water, I can be myself, and it's a great "me time" session. Besides that, I often swimming with speed, because I get to use it when I was trained as an athlete. But swimming in the ocean is not as same as swimming in the pool, we should enjoy the ocean scenery, no need to rush. A week ago, I did join a trip to Tunda Island, Serang Banten, Indonesia. It was my first time to go on a trip (you may check on Instagram: @ansor_officialTrip)  alone without friends or family. Fortunately, I met new friends. They are free-divers and fun people. One of them, miss Irma or you can find her Instagram with @_irmave_ taught me how to freediving. She taught me how to br...

I've been watching Korean Drama since High school. However, I was not that intense.  I loved to watch it but not addicted.  Okay then the Pandemic Covid 19 happens, I stayed at home for almost 8 months now. Most of the time I spend my day with my daughter and do zoom meetings. And I still adapt it, it's not easy to change my life habit. I'm not a "stay at home" person. Then, I re-watched all the Song Hye Kyo drama. My first Korean Drama is "Endless Love" or "Autumn in my Heart". I cried so hard when I watched it 😂. I saw Song Hye Kyo for the first time when I was in high school, and she was beautiful at that time and still beautiful until now. She is not even aging. The story is very very very sad. I can't hold my tears if I watch a movie about "cancer" or any kind of sickness theme. My second favorite is The Descendant of the Sun. The Song-Song Couple chemistry was very perfect! No wonder their romance keep going until they were...

Co-parenting? what is that? for you who has "a perfect family" hopefully will never experience this. I started to google it since April 2019. I never know and never want to experience this kind of parenting method. However, some sh%%$ happened and the show must go on.  When you google "co-parenting", you will face several articles about it. Basically, co-parenting means you and your ex-spouse collaborate together to raise the kid, despite your hates and egos. And how to do it? the answer is I DON'T KNOW. I just try not to fight or against your ex-spouse in front of your kid and pretend "everything is just fine". I try to explain the kid every night such as "Mommy and daddy can't get along together anymore, however, we still love you and want the best for you". I will allow my daughter if she wants to meet her dad and vice versa. On the other hand, especially in Indonesia, the "co-parenting" method is unusual. Therefore, you need...