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 Heyho I'm writing about my experience surviving from Covid 19. I got Covid on March 2021, and I was in the hospital for 12 days. Fortunately, I isolated in the hospital with my other best friend, Annisa and Kartika. It was quite a funny experience. As I remembered before I got Covid, I can't sleep for three days. So I believe that I got Covid because of stress that makes my immune was dropping. The important thing is to please keep stress away during pandemics. I know It's not an easy situation, but please try hard to avoid stress. Because when you got stress, you can't eat and sleep well, therefore your immune will drop, and the virus could catch you. That's what happened to me. The unique thing about this virus is it has different effects happens to different people. For example, I got no fever, and I still can breathe easily, however, I lost the ability to smell (anosmia) and to taste food. However, a different effect happens to my friend, she had a bad fever fo...

 Hi, it's been a long time. Somehow I feel sorry that I'm not consistent in writing my blog. So I try to back on track. Please be nice to me 😁. I have a question in my head now "Have You Ever Think How Impactful You are in Your Society?" Currently, I'm 33 years old and reviewing my life. Yes I got a job and it's quite stable, I have a daughter, a beautiful, smart, and kind daughter (I'm proud of her). I don't have much cash in my bank account, but I quite grateful for my financial conditions. So I make a checklist of what I did since college: 2010 I graduated with my bachelor's degree. 2010 I got a job as a banker. 2012 I won the First winner of the SOE's Ambassador award. (It's the only one of my big achievements so far hahaha, so I proud of it) 2006-2015 I have some ex-boyfriends 😅 (I believe, I'm kind of attractive but I'm not good at relationship things hehehe). My family is quite decent. then 2016 I got married.  2017 pursue ...

Hello Again. I'm very pleased to write again. Today I want to write about my first freediving lesson experience at Tunda Island. One word: AMAZING. I've been swimming since I was 3, and I did some competition when I was in elementary school. Until now, swimming is my favorite sport all the time. I feel calm in the water, I can be myself, and it's a great "me time" session. Besides that, I often swimming with speed, because I get to use it when I was trained as an athlete. But swimming in the ocean is not as same as swimming in the pool, we should enjoy the ocean scenery, no need to rush. A week ago, I did join a trip to Tunda Island, Serang Banten, Indonesia. It was my first time to go on a trip (you may check on Instagram: @ansor_officialTrip)  alone without friends or family. Fortunately, I met new friends. They are free-divers and fun people. One of them, miss Irma or you can find her Instagram with @_irmave_ taught me how to freediving. She taught me how to br...

I've been watching Korean Drama since High school. However, I was not that intense.  I loved to watch it but not addicted.  Okay then the Pandemic Covid 19 happens, I stayed at home for almost 8 months now. Most of the time I spend my day with my daughter and do zoom meetings. And I still adapt it, it's not easy to change my life habit. I'm not a "stay at home" person. Then, I re-watched all the Song Hye Kyo drama. My first Korean Drama is "Endless Love" or "Autumn in my Heart". I cried so hard when I watched it 😂. I saw Song Hye Kyo for the first time when I was in high school, and she was beautiful at that time and still beautiful until now. She is not even aging. The story is very very very sad. I can't hold my tears if I watch a movie about "cancer" or any kind of sickness theme. My second favorite is The Descendant of the Sun. The Song-Song Couple chemistry was very perfect! No wonder their romance keep going until they were...

Co-parenting? what is that? for you who has "a perfect family" hopefully will never experience this. I started to google it since April 2019. I never know and never want to experience this kind of parenting method. However, some sh%%$ happened and the show must go on.  When you google "co-parenting", you will face several articles about it. Basically, co-parenting means you and your ex-spouse collaborate together to raise the kid, despite your hates and egos. And how to do it? the answer is I DON'T KNOW. I just try not to fight or against your ex-spouse in front of your kid and pretend "everything is just fine". I try to explain the kid every night such as "Mommy and daddy can't get along together anymore, however, we still love you and want the best for you". I will allow my daughter if she wants to meet her dad and vice versa. On the other hand, especially in Indonesia, the "co-parenting" method is unusual. Therefore, you need...

Hi, it's been a while... So many things happen in my life. Start from I joined a Fintech Center Project of Indonesian Regulator as an expert because of my finance and banking background that leads me to my new role and then I have a lot of things to do to support Indonesian Fintech ecosystem. So here I'm writing to give you some insight before you create your own Fintech. Honestly, I've been met more than 100 young entrepreneurs in this 4 months. Some of them are really good, smart and charismatic. Although some of them really not sure what going on, they don't know what do, and I can tell that they are "lost". I'm not a co-founder of any fintech yet, maybe next time hihihi. Furthermore, I know and understand the fintech regulations in Indonesia. I'll give you some advice before you meet Indonesian Regulators. Before I start, you may know Indonesia has big potentials of digital finance market. Firstly, now Indonesia is the 16th world ...

Hi it's been a while... Today I would like to share my experience as a baby swill class coach at @splishsplashid. However, I never thought that I could teach parents how to swim safely with their babies. When I was a kid, I got a gold medal for swimming competition for all primary school student in Jakarta, and I love to swim. My point is every good thing that we've learned in the past will give us an advantage, build our character and determine who we are. Hopefully what I've learned can be useful for the society and others, although it's just a simple thing such how to swim together with your baby safely. So here some tips for a parent when swimming with their baby under one year old. I recommend you to start swim together with your baby when she/he is six months old. There are some advantages for baby join baby swimming class such as build his/her character to be more confident, enhance bonding between parent and baby, healthy together (of course), sleeping tra...

Hello Again... two weeks after labor I will share "how I can manage my study while I have a newborn Baby". Alhamdulillah I did my master degree. I was thinking to write about this blog but I wait until I done my study.  Actually, becoming a new MOM is not easy for every woman in the world. Not only me as an international student, but also for every new mom, for an example a working mom also has her own challenges, especially when her maternity leaves is over and has to be back to work. Besides, a full-time mom might have her own story too. However, based on my experience. I can create a short list of study tips for a new mom as follows            1. Pray As a Muslim, I pray 5 times a day. During my prayer, I always ask ALLAH SWT to give me strength so I can fulfill my study and become a great mom without any problems. It gives me hope that Allah SWT always with me so I can through it well. At my main Campus, University of Notti...

Hi Guys It's been a rough week for me and my husband. My baby got pneumonia and had to be hospitalized for a couple of days. On my last blog was about my baby's adaptation ability and unfortunately it still difficult for her to adapt living in Jakarta; the weather, the pollution, the virus, etc. I will flashback how she finally had to be hospitalized. 20th October 2017, Friday: She got fever 38 celsius and couldn't sleep well. 21st October 2017, Saturday: We went to RS. Puri Cinere and the doctor gave her some medicine for her flu and cough. Although it was not antibiotics. (because it was still early stage for baby to get antibiotic) 23rd October 2017, Monday: She was not even getting better, we went to RS. Puri Cinere and met another doctor. Then, the doctor gave her antibiotics. However, she was getting better.  28th October 2017, Friday: She got a fever again and couldn't sleep well. 29th October 2017, Saturday: We went to the hospi...

hello again it's been a while yaaa. today I want to share my story related to my baby adaptation ability. On 22nd September 2017, I moved from the United Kingdom back home to Indonesia. Travel with baby 6 months years old was quite challenging. I had to prepare every detail of baby needs and also my stamina. A week before flying to Indonesia, I started to eat and sleep well and also did yoga. During almost 24 hours flight, alhamdulillah we can manage the situation. Although, at the first flight from Birmingham to Istanbul, we had not that comfortable flight. The plane was so hot, and my baby had a pup. But overall, it was still okay. Then, on the second flight from Istanbul to Jakarta, alhamdulillah my baby slept during the flight. When we arrive in Jakarta, my baby had several issues: 1. Jetlag she needs a whole week for adaptation the sleep hour of Indonesian Time. During the daylight, I have to wake up her although she is still sleepy. it's to help he...

Setelah saya menyusui anak saya yang berusia 4 bulan pada 20/0717, Pukul 05.09 Pagi di Nottingham, Inggris, saya melihat dan membaca “postingan” mba Dian Sastro terkait #lampauibatasambisimu. Saya merasa terharu karena ada sosok hebat yang merasakan hal yang serupa dengan saya saat ini. Setahun lalu, saya adalah pegawai disalah satu Bank terbesar di Jakarta. Saya memiliki karir yang baik dan berprestasi namun dibalik itu semua saya memendam ambisi untuk melanjutkan pendidikan master saya di luar negeri. Awal masuk kuliah, 4 months of pregnancy Dan akhirnya saya menikah pada April 2016 lalu dan ambisi saya pun belum terwujud. Ternyata takdir berkata lain, pada Juni 2016 suami saya pun mendapat beasiswa untuk melanjutkan kuliah ke Inggris dan saya telah hamil 6 minggu. Pada saat itu saya berpikir “inilah saatnya saya harus melanjutkan sekolah atau tidak sama sekali”. Kemudian saya memutuskan untuk ikut suami melanjutkan sekolah bersama dan meninggalkan pekerjaan saya. Hal t...